If there is a concert coming to my area, I am not trying to make friends with ANYBODY until I get my ticket. It’s rare for kpop acts to make world tours, and if they do, spots are going to sell out quick. During that time I don’t talk to anyone about which seats I want or when I’m going to buy them or what time I’m planning on getting there or anything. Once I’ve secured my seat, then sure, I don’t mind meeting new people and making plans to hang out, I actually look forward to that. But until then, everyone is competition and getting that ticket is my first priority.